Monday, March 25, 2013

Craving Grace Like Chocolate by Ruthie Delk (Review)

I love chocolate.  A decent piece of the dark stuff can lift my spirits like no other food.  Craving Grace Like Chocolate: How the Gospel Changes Everything might seem like an odd name for a book, but it gets the point across.  Fortunately, God's grace is a whole lot healthier for you than chocolate!  And, as the subtitle suggests, it's also a whole lot more life-altering.

I've been a Christian believer for nearly 37 years.  You would think that by now I would always be rock solid in my faith.  I am not.  Like so many of you, I've experienced multiple painful crises in my faith journey. But I keep going.  

I recently found myself in a workshop by author Ruthie Delk at the Books and Beyond conference, listening again to the basics of grace, and thankful for the fresh reminder.  Ruthie, too, had a deep crisis of faith.  Raised as a missionary kid in Belgium, she was an expert in keeping pace on a spiritual treadmill.  Then, while her husband David was in seminary (of all places!), she came to the point of spiritual exhaustion and questioning. 
"I believed the gospel had the power to change people; it just wasn't changing me.  And I was miserable.  This disconnect showed up in questions like these:
My head was filled with brilliant knowledge about all the wonderful attributes of God, but my heart was not convinced He even knew my name."
If I believed His love was unconditional, why did I feel loved on the days I "got it right" and feel abandoned on the days I "got it wrong"?   If I really believed He was in control, why was I so fearful?  If I really believed He was with me, why did I feel so alone?  If I really believe His grace saved and forgave me, why couldn't I extend that same grace to others?
My head was filled with brilliant knowledge about all the wonderful attributes of God, but my heart was not convinced he even knew my name."
Ruthie shares that her simplistic view of the gospel as a mere entryway into salvation needed to deepen into an expanded perspective of God's holiness, love, and grace.  She had viewed herself as an orphan rather than as a beloved daughter of a compassionate Father.  Now, the gospel became not just a doorway, but a pathway.
It is every promise, every fact, every attribute of God, and everything we need to know, understand, and experience about God and his grace.  As described in Ephesians 1, the gospel encompasses every spiritual blessing we have in Christ.
A picture is worth a thousand words, and Ruthie has developed a wonderful diagram called The Gospel 8 to show how Christians can either walk in grace and restoration (convinced that God is our Redeemer, Healer, Defender, Provider and more) or descend into a cycle of despair (defined by rejection, abuse, bitterness, fear and anger) as they look to false gods like work, money, family, approval and performance for their security and satisfaction.


You can watch videos of Ruthie describing the Gospel 8 concept here.


A few more factoids to round out this review:


I recommend this book!

Grace,
Virginia Knowles
www.ComeWearyMoms.blogspot.com



Friday, March 22, 2013

Decorating and Organizing Bathroom Areas on a Budget


Dear friends,

Creating a post about bathrooms seems trivial compared to a lot of more important things I could be writing.  I have a whole list of posts I want to do!  But this morning, the bathroom. Why?  Because it's such a practical place, and finding new ways to make it work can bring more shalom and beauty to your day.  Besides, as you'll see, there is a little bit of a social justice theme in this post anyway.

I'm on a pretty tight budget, so a fancy bathroom redo is not in my near future.  But there are always little things we can do to perk it up and organize it more effectively.

Here's a little tour of my master bath area and then two pictures from our hall bath.

I use a full size garden flag for my bathroom curtain.  It lets the light through beautifully, while providing enough privacy.  It's also moisture resistant.  There are mini-blinds behind it, as well as a Renuzit air freshener bought for a dollar at Walmart.


My bathroom walls are painted peach, and I've certainly got a springtime theme going on in there.  My mother made these two small stained glass pieces, choosing the camellia and magnolia because they grow in our back yard.



I just installed this wall hook to hold my clothes while I'm the shower.   (I don't like setting them on the small sink counter or trying to hang them over the towel bar.) This hook is extra sturdy, and cost about $3 at Walmart.




The back of the sink can get really cluttered and cruddy if too much stuff is stored there.  I left out just the basics. I put a bunch of the stuff up in the medicine cabinet, like our deodorants and my husband's shaving cream can that kept leaving a rust ring on the counter anyway.   You can read about how I organize the medicine cabinets in our house here: Organizing First Aid Supplies, Medicines and Supplements.

I just gave up using a traditional toothbrush / toothpaste holder because I could never fit the folded end of the toothpaste tube in the hole they provide.  I bought this cheery flowerpot at Deals for $1.  I like the combination of colors on the three items I left out.  And I love the lever style sink handle.  I can turn the sink on with the back of my wrist if my hands have germs on them.


Under the sink, I store sanitary supplies and cleaning items in bins, along with a container of peroxide.  We keep a bucket underneath the sink pipes to catch any possible leaks.


We salvaged the cabinet above from a neighbor who was moving. I replaced the existing handles with decorative knobs from Walmart.



The metal toilet paper roll rack is another new addition. It holds four rolls, and it's easier to get to than the cabinet if you're sitting on the toilet and realize there is none left on the current roll. :-) I bought it for around $7. We buy our toilet paper in bulk at Sam's Club. Each roll is individually wrapped.  I think that is so much more sanitary!



Our house is about forty years old, and we've lived here about half that time. We finally had to replace the shower door several years ago. My smart husband decided to hang a shower curtain on the inside of the shower door to keep the water off it. It keeps it so much cleaner, and will certainly extend the life of the door. He can easily take the curtain down for cleaning, or replace it cheaply.



My husband just bought this shower rack for me.  We used to keep the shampoo bottles in a bin on the shower floor, but I prefer this!  I used a little white duct tape to keep it snugger against the wall.



We also store big bottles on the towel bar at the other end of the shower.  A narrow little basket (which rests on the bar) and a suction cup caddy hold smaller items like razors or tiny bottles that would otherwise fall down.




We had a ceramic soap dish that hung from a bracket that was bolted to the wall.  Unfortunately, it fell down and cut my ankle up.  I replaced it with this suction cup soap dish, $1 at Deals.




We have periodic plumbing problems, and the toilet has been known to overflow into the adjacent dressing area.  We had to rip the carpet out and replace the whole floor in that area with ceramic tile, which I love.  That's a good thing, since we just had another bad backup a week or so ago.  So easy to clean!



Speaking of plumbing problems, we also had a leak in our shower behind the wall a while back.  My husband had to cut the drywall in our dressing area to get to it.  That left two damaged areas of drywall.  Until recently, the top one was covered with a tapestry, and the bottom one was just there for all to see.  During my little bathroom redo, I decided to do something about it.  I moved the Success poster from over my desk. (You'll see in a minute why I needed to do that.)  Then, to cover the smaller hole, I bought a sturdy basket (wire frame reinforced) to hold my hair dryer.  I found it for $5 at Walmart.  The ceramic bells to the right were a gift from my husband when we were dating; they are from his trip to Venezuela.  You might see the edge of a set of white ceramic birds at the left.  One of my daughters bought them on a mission trip to the Dominican Republic. 




Two other sets of South American bells -- these from Bolivia -- were gifts brought back from mission trips by another two daughters.  They hang from the top of the mirror.  



The rack below (also seen above) is a very recent gift from a daughter who ordered it from Ten Thousand Villages, a partner of the Mennonite Central Committee.  It was created by Cooperative le Semilla de Dios (the seed of God) in El Salvador.  The stories of these two fair trade charitable organizations are fascinating, so be sure to click those links and check out their beautiful gift items that benefit the local economies in Third World communities!  Did you notice the theme of social justice in Latin America for my dressing area?  Yeah, that just all came together nicely.  You can't read the poem on that Success poster two pictures up but the last lines are, "To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition, To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success." You can read the rest at A Desk for Mom.




Also in this dressing area, on the floor underneath the counter, are a large basket to hold clean towels and a small bucket to hold used wash cloths and hand towels before laundering.  Clean wash cloths and hand towels are stored in the drawer attached to the counter.  You can see those here: Organizing and Laundering Your Linens.


We also keep toiletries and personal care in other areas of the bedroom.  Some of mine are in this white cabinet that sits on my desk.  That's where the Success poster used to hang.  My neighbors gave this cabinet to me several weeks ago, and it's just right for making the most use of my space.  Small kindnesses like this are such a blessing.  What can you do to bless someone else?




My husband's dresser has a tray for his personal supplies and favorite medicines.






In the full bathroom down the hall, I just want to show you two things...

This shelf sits above the toilet, with the vertical pieces going down to the floor on the sides.  The kids tend to be a little sloppy with their stuff, but that's just real life.  I rarely go in their bathroom! The shower curtain is an under-the-sea theme.



And finally, a bit of humor...  I found this at Salvation Army for 79 cents, and just hung it up!  I guess charity and justice start in the home, in little ways.



Well, those are my bathrooms -- or at least the parts I'm willing to show!

I hope you've come away encouraged that you can make even "the least" parts of your home look pretty without breaking the bank.  Use what you have, buy inexpensive stuff at the dollar store or Walmart, and then you'll have more money for the important things in life -- like being kind to others around the world.

For shalom and beauty, 

Virginia Knowles

P.S. This post will be linked at several blog parties.  You can find the list of my favorites here: Link  Ups.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

My Hope Is In You



May integrity and uprightness protect me, 
because my hopeLord, is in you.
Psalm 25:21

This is my verse for the week.
Based on all the troubling news 
we've faced lately in our community 
and in our circle of friends, 
I really need it a sense of hope.

My husband called me outside to see
this beautiful rainbow this morning.
It's a double rainbow, 
but only a half rainbow since it has no left side.
Maybe that's a symbol that hope
is not always configured the way we expect.
It's not always readily apparent.
We need God to reveal it to us,
to lead us on the right path.
But it is our choice to seek and follow,
and to love the truth enough to do what is right
even in the storms.

Show me your ways, Lord,
    teach me your paths.
Guide me in your truth and teach me,

    for you are God my Savior,
    and my hope is in you all day long.
Psalm 25:4-5


Grace,
Virginia Knowles

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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Bella Sophia (Lady Wisdom Sets Her Table)





"Bella Sophia"
 by Virginia Knowles

Lady Wisdom diligently prepares her feast
She fixes her savory meats and mixes her sweet wines
Then arranges her lovely banquet table:
Linens, bouquets, crystal, china, silver, candles
With exquisite hospitality and grace
She welcomes her guests:
"Come in, sit down, and dine!"

This feast is for our souls
Lady Wisdom nourishes our minds with solid truth
And delights our spirits with goblets of merry mirth
She pleases our inner eyes and ears with a deep harmony
A heart mark of the Creator.

Dear Lady Wisdom,
Teach me to teach as you do
To season my words with the spices of love and prayer
To think before I speak so I will know
What each hungry heart needs to hear
Show me how to captivate hearts and minds
With insight and satisfy their souls with delight
To feed them the honeycomb of pleasant words
Sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.

Bella Sophia
Beautiful Lady Wisdom
Help me to spread a banquet in my home 
With the Meat of the Word
The Bread of Life and Living Water
The Fruit of the Spirit
Then come alongside 
And call out with me through open doors,
"Welcome, sit down, and dine!"




Wisdom has built her house;
she has set up its seven pillars.
She has prepared her meat and mixed her wine;
she has also set her table.
She has sent out her servants, and she calls
from the highest point of the city,
“Let all who are simple come to my house!”
To those who have no sense she says,
“Come, eat my food
and drink the wine I have mixed.
Leave your simple ways and you will live;
walk in the way of insight.”

Proverbs 9:1-6

I read these words from Proverbs Saturday morning and started thinking about how I communicate with others.  It still wasn't a good day for that -- so many cross conversations! As a mother, I do need bella sophia, beautiful wisdom, in the atmosphere of my home.  How am I nurturing my own children?  I've got so much to learn and do.  As a writer, I try to set the table on my blogs with a variety of articles, some serious, some practical, some aesthetic, some light-hearted.  As an English teacher, too, I see the need to reach the hearts and minds of each of my students.  Lesson planning takes effort, but it's worth it.  Yes, I teach grammar and spelling, but most of all, through the literature, writing, music and art appreciation that I plan each week, I try to impart wisdom for life.  After reading in Proverbs 9, I'll now try to think of it as preparing the feast and setting the table -- with enough substance to sustain them and enough delight to capture their hearts for the truth.  What do you think about this?

Virginia Knowles
www.ComeWearyMoms.blogspot.com

P.S. I borrowed the table photo from my post Weekend Gratitude: Welcoming Touches.  (Many thanks to my friend Judy, who hosted our Dinner with Friends feast two weeks ago!) 

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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Simply Southern Pound Cake and Divine Chicken


SIMPLY SOUTHERN POUND CAKE
(a Mississippi Delta recipe)

2 sticks butter
3 cups sugar
6 eggs
1 tsp. vanilla
1 tsp. lemon juice (optional)

1 cup whipping cream (unwhipped)
3 cups flour

Cream butter and sugar. Add eggs one at a time. Add vanilla & lemon juice.  Add whipping cream and flour, ending with flour. Put into a greased and floured bundt pan (not an angel food removable tube pan). Place in a cold oven. Set oven at 325 degrees and bake 1 hour and 15 minutes.  Optional: Serve with 
sliced strawberries and whipped topping.

DIVINE CHICKEN WITH WHITE WINE SAUCE

(Serves 12)

4 packages of chicken tenders (about 7 to 8 tenders in each package)
1 teaspoon salt
3 tablespoons flour
2 cups sour cream
2 cups whipping cream
1 cup white wine or sherry
1 cup sliced almonds
1 tablespoon paprika


Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Sprinkle chicken with 1 teaspoon salt. Mix flour and 1/4 cup sour cream, then mix with rest sour cream, whipping cream & wine. Pour over chicken. Sprinkle with almonds & paprika. Bake for 1 to 11/2 hours. Serve over rice or Rice-A-Roni Wild & Long Grain. 


Virginia and Judy at the
2012 Easter Egg Roll in Baldwin Park
I mentioned these delicious foods in a post on one of my other blogs on Sunday: Weekend Gratitude: Welcoming Touches. My friend Judy made them for Dinner with Friends, which she and her husband Bart hosted in their home for eight of us from Lake Baldwin Church.  I wish I'd gotten a picture of the chicken, too, since it was as pretty as it was yummy.  I definitely went back for seconds!

Judy sent the recipes along with this verse, a comforting word from Jesus: "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33

If you'd like to read about another cake taken to a Lake Baldwin event (this one by me, with less than perfect results though still delicious), take a peek here: Hope, Joy, and Pineapple Coconut Bundt Cake.

Do you like to entertain?  What are your favorite company meals?  Leave a comment and/or a link below!

Bon Appetit!

Virginia Knowles
www.ComeWearyMoms.blogspot.com

Monday, February 25, 2013

A Potpourri of Philippians: Favorites, Study Methods, and Activities




Hello friends,

This week my English students in our home school co-op will study the book of Philippians for their literature lesson, a little break from the novels, short stories, and poems we've been doing already this year.  I wish I could be there in class with them today, but I'm home with a sore throat and didn't want to share my germies.  So I sent in the homework packets for them for my fellow Dawn to distribute.

Being sick is no fun, especially when I have to miss out on my students and teaching that I love so much.  And going through the stresses of life is pretty challenging, too, whether it is health, finances, family conflicts, a hectic schedule, bad habits, other assorted personal inadequacies, or whatever else happens to be jerking my heart strings at the moment. 

But I thought back to the co-op assignment and pondered. Then, as I flipped through my journal this morning, I rediscovered a section I wrote a few years ago listing favorite passages from Philippians.  I realize anew that one of the messages of Philippians is taking what comes and making the best of it, rejoicing always, still seeking to serve in the midst of chaos, thinking on the noble and excellent.

So today I'm home, catching up on laundry and dishes, and now sitting down to meditate on this excellent epistle.  I hope you don't mind if I do my ruminating at the keyboard so I can catch it as it comes.   I'll even throw in a few of the learning activities I'm providing for my students.  Maybe you'd like to do them yourself or share them with your children.

Favorite Passages from Philippians


1: I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus … 

1:9 And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight,10 so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, 11 filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.

1:20 I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. 21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. 

1:27a Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ... 29 For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for him...

2:1If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God,  did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death— even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place  and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

2:14 Do everything without complaining or arguing, 15 so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe 16 as you hold out the word of life…
3:7 But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith. 

See: A Little Lenten Liturgy 
10 I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, 11 and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead. 12 Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. 13 Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead,14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

3:16 Only let us live up to what we have already attained.


3:20 But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, 21 who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

4:11b  I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

4:19 And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus... 23 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.

(Joy is a repeated theme in Philippians, appearing at least 11 times!  Where else can you find JOY in the Bible?  You can do a search at www.BibleGateway.com.  The joy decorations photos I included in this post on Philippians are borrowed from one I wrote yesterday: Weekend Gratitude: Welcoming TouchesThank you, Judy, for the inspiration!)



I sang two of these verses (3:10-11) today, a little ditty I made up when I was in high school... Do you ever set Scripture to music?  It's a wonderful way to remember and to sink it into your own heart!


Philippians 1: Prayer Activity 

The Apostle Paul prayed daily for the Philippian church, as he did for all of the other churches in his care.  Verses 9-11 show us what he prayed for them, and teaches us how we can pray for others according to God’s will.  Copy these verses on an index card and put it in your Bible or tape them on a wall so that you can pray for others with Scripture.  Then look up Colossians 1:9-12 and 2 Thessalonians 1:11-12 and see how they are a lot alike.  

Philippians 2: SPACE Study 

SPACE: Sin, Promise, Attitude, Command, Example

Read the chapter and look for the following:

Sins to avoid:  Write the four specific words and then briefly tell what each means.

Promises to claim:  These include the five good things that God is doing in us now, as well as a promise for the future.

Attitudes to change:
1. Replace PRIDE with __________________. 
2. Replace SELFISHNESS with ____________________.
3. Replace APATHY with ____________________.

Commands to obey:   Look for nine, some very clear instructions and others implied. 

Example to follow:  Four people in this chapter -- Jesus, Paul, Timothy and Epaphroditus --  set powerful examples for us.  What good character and attitudes should we imitate from each of their lives?

Philippians 3: ABC Activity

Write the letters A - Z down the side of a page.  Then find words from Philippians 3 which start with each letter of the alphabet, like attain for the letter A.  Make these significant, meaningful words whenever possible. There are none for Q, V, or X, at least in the version I was using, so for these letters, choose a word that reminds you of an idea in Philippians 3.

Philippians 4: Read, Reflect & Respond

You can use this form to help you: Read, Reflect & Respond Bible Note Page
   READ Philippians 4 slowly and carefully.  Then read it out loud.  Then read it again in another version, if possible.  Copy words, phrases, or whole verses that are important to you.
   REFLECT on what the chapter means.  Think about it, make lists, outline it, define words, cross-reference to other passages. Pray that God will open your eyes to the truth.  
   RESPOND by copying down key verses and writing down how you can apply them in your own life.   Pray, think big, be real, tell someone, just do it!

Philippians 4: Word Search

Philippians 4:8 tells us to think about good things, so I have put all of the good things from the whole chapter into this word search.  This should remind us to always been on the hunt for the good things in our lives – and be thankful to God for giving them to us! (I used www.PuzzleMaker.com to create this puzzle.)

Think About These Things 



E V W G X T N C K Z C O J H Q S U N G T
C R Q C E R G O C H R I S T B P C J N W
I F K F C C J N I P Y F L G K J Q A I G
F A B K Q W A C R T J O W O O I R F V T
I O N C O M M E N D A B L E V G H P I T
R E C I O J E R P B R C N S A E I L G M
C P L E A S I N G E E N I R X H L S S E
A N V F D K Y A Y Q P T F L S S T Y K X
S S E N E L B A N O S A E R P R H I N C
J O J P P S R E G Z P H E Q E P C H A E
A U F T U P L I W R D N C N Z O U Y H L
E C S F R F F T A F T C G R N K J S T L
Y C C T E T F I D R E T R T U T O W S E
B W N E D R S Z A K H H E E S H U O U N
L I R A P E I P E E S N U B O W C R S C
E Y O J D T E N N L T R E L O R D T E E
P Q C C B N A X G X T G J W L J X H J B
S W P B A W U B Y F M B A H L W U Y P V
O D B W D V G B L R P X V Y J O K R X T
G D R A U G O H A E E L B A R O N O H A

Words to find: ABUNDANCE / ACCEPTABLE / CHRIST / CHURCH / COMMENDABLE / CONCERN / CONTENT /EXCELLENCE / FRAGRANT / GIFT / GOSPEL / GUARD / HONORABLE / JESUS / JOY / JUST / LORD / LOVELY / OFFERING / PARTNERSHIP / PEACE / PLEASING / PRAISE / PRAYER / PURE / REASONABLENESS / REJOICE / SACRIFICE / STRENGTHEN / SUPPLICATION / THANKSGIVING / TRUE / WORTHY
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