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Recalibrating for the New Year
Recalibrating for the New Year
Dear
friends,
Two
more days until the New Year!
I
don't know about you, but I am exhausted from 2011. It has been a year of very challenging
transitions for my whole family.
Frankly, I don't feel much like writing anything except in my journal at
this point, hence the paucity of new posts on my blogs lately.
I
feel a distinct need for recalibration at this point. I know there are areas of life where I have
almost completely lost motivation and vision, where I am battling to overcome
negative attitudes and habits. It's time
to renew my mind and tweak my lifestyle even more. In some ways, I just need to find my way back
home again in the sense of recapturing, rethinking, refreshing, reworking the
noble dreams I once had for my family. Yes, there has been much baggage of unrealistic
(and/or legalistic) expectations that I've had to shed along the way, but I
don't want to throw the baby out with the bathwater.
And
for that process, it seems I need a constant stream of inspiration, whether it
is from the Bible (I have been reading and reflecting on Luke -- see Reflections on the 6th of Luke), or from the encouragement of
friends (which has been so priceless in recent very difficult months), or from
authors and musicians. And in this post, I'm sharing about some books, a CD, and some other blog posts to bless you, too.
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| Cold Tangerines |
My
husband, at my request, gave me a copy of Shauna Niequist's book Cold Tangerines,
which, as the title suggests, has been very refreshing to my soul. Subtitled "Celebrating
the Extraordinary Nature of Every Day Life," it is is written in a warm
and conversational style, and seeps deep. I appreciate that she doesn't offer
easy answers, but instead explores some of the mysteries of faith and daily
life. I seriously don't know how people learn to write like that, and I confess
that I am insanely jealous. Maybe someday I will figure it out. In my dreams.
One of my adult daughters who still lives at home borrowed the book,
read it, and said it's her new favorite, too. Shauna Niequist reminds me of the
literary version of musician Sara Groves, whose music has been such a balm to
me in the past several years.
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| Invisible Empires |
I hadn't even realized Sara Groves had a new CD out, but
my husband saw Invisible Empires in the bookstore and gave it to me for
Christmas. Perfect. We were listening to
it in the car yesterday, just before our walk twice around Lake Lily. We are working through sobering and pivotal
things, the two of us, and that requires regular time away from the kids.
| G.K. Chesterton |
I've also been reading some books on Kindle. You don't need an actual Kindle device to download and read them from Amazon. I read mine either on my iPod Touch or on my computer. One of my Facebook friends, Angela (aka The Thrifty Homemaker) routinely posts lists of free Kindlebooks. Here are three I've been enjoying lately: 77 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home by Judy H. Wright, The Heart of Abundance: A Simple Guide to Appreciating and Enjoying Life by Candy Paull, and Orthodoxy by British writer G.K. Chesterton, a contemporary and friend of C.S. Lewis. "Witty" and "profound" are the two words that come to mind when I think of the writing style of Orthodoxy. You have to think about this book, which is a Christian classic. I particularly appreciate his kind words about those of us who think more poetically than logistically. Chesterton reminds us to break out of our airtight little circles of rigidly "rational" thinking and stretch our brains and our hearts to a larger life. I like that. I recommended it to my FB friend, and she added it in with today's list!
On My Blogs
Inspiration in
the Blogosphere
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Simple Ways to Start Fresh in the New Year by Charlotte
Seims at This Lovely Place "The new year is just around the corner and it’s a great time to get a
fresh start in your life. Whether you want to get in shape, manage your time or get a handle on your house cleaning, take
advantage of the extra feeling of motivation this time of year to accomplish
some easy and doable tasks." (Charlotte is a home schooling mother of 12, speaker,
author, and fitness trainer). Also from Charlotte's web site, an article by
Elvie Look: 21 Good (and Bad) Habits to Keep You Organized
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Filling your soul with beauty, truth and goodness
by Sally Clarkson at I
Take Joy "Make a plan of how you will grow in wisdom, beauty and
truth this year. What will you read? When will you have a quiet time? What do
you need to stop doing? Make a plan for all the ways you will pour beauty,
goodness, wisdom and truth into your children this year. What books and stories
will you read to them? When will you have devotionals with them? How do you
need to change to reflect love and graciousness to them so that they will form
their relationship habits on gentleness and generous love?"
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When You Need a New You by Arabah Joy
"And it strikes me one day, why so
many of God’s people never breathe it in. Why we never let the Physician do the
full work He offers us: Some
of us are content to stay on the other side of the Jordan. Like
the Reubenites, Gadites, and half tribe of Manassah, we are happy with the land
just short of the Promised Land. (Josh. 22:1-4) We decide our symptoms
aren’t that bad, the prognosis is tolerable, and
there are far fewer risks involved. Who wants to spend their whole lifetime fighting to gain territory, anyway? We’ll
settle for stuffed bookshelves and too-busy lives and the intake of so much
caffeine that it needs its own budget….we’ll take what we can get and make the best of it."
Also by Arabah Joy: The Gift
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Quiet Time 101
by
Jeannie
Fulbright "During
the years I taught Bible study, I met many women who had never developed the
habit of a daily quiet time. It wasn’t that they didn’t want to have a quiet
time, it was that they simply didn’t know exactly how. They had tried to read
their Bibles, but found it didn’t gel. They tried to develop a habitual prayer
life, but found their minds wandered when they were praying so that they
couldn’t really get through their list of prayers. Because many adults didn’t
grow up in Christian families, they have never been taught how to have a vital,
thriving quiet time with God. So, if you haven’t had a daily quiet time, how do
you begin?"
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A Faith That Fits by Emily at A Deeper Story "This faith I carry was stitched with as much love as that
yellow dress, and just as my Mama made a big quilt to cover their bed of all
our baby clothes, maybe I can make something worthwhile yet. So I gather up the
tired faith with my scissors, needle, and thread. And daily I snip out
the worn clean through spots, split open the seams, and try to find pieces that
are still good. I lay the salvaged squares out in front of me and try to piece
it together with the emerging faith. Maybe one day I will make something
beautiful from this mess. But today it’s still in pieces."
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Roasted Cinnamon Nuts OK, so this one isn't inspirational, but it sure is yummy. I bought a three pound bag of almonds at
Sam's Club made these as Christmas presents for my husband and my married
daughters. I presented them in Rubbermaid containers with festive red lids, and they were seriously the culinary rave of the day. My toddler grandson literally went nuts for them,
and his pregnant mommy said she could just sit on the couch eating them all
day. Lightly sweetened, and just plain
scrumptious… I originally found this recipe linked from a post on Toni Anderson's Happy Housewife blog. More food? Check out Ann Kroeker's Food on Fridays; you can find today's post at Food on Fridays: Shrimp in Garlic Cream Sauce.
God bless you, friends!
Virginia Knowles
Be sure to check the price on the Kindle books. "Free" can be temporary. I think the chores book is not free anymore.
ReplyDeleteMy year sounds very similar to yours :-) Re-thinking, recalibrating, as you so nicely put it. Homeschooling is an area in which we'd lost our vision for much of this year but stuck with it anyway, unwilling to make "big" changes until the renovation God's been doing in our lives settles down a bit.
ReplyDeleteI got a kindle for Christmas and one of the first books I downloaded was Orthodoxy!